She Says

 The Shit Patriarchy! I always wonder why the old generation hates the new generation so much because we question everything that they followed so blindly in this misogynist man dominant country where oppression of women is believed as a tradition!  Well, Well, Well! Common sense isn't so common after all! Stop being annoyed at feminism being called feminism when the entire history of the human race is called “Mankind”! The women whose feet you cut running, will give birth to daughters with wings! Within her is the power to create, nurture and transform.  Being single is a choice for women. There is no such thing that she can’t get a Man. A man is the easiest thing to get!   A woman at a certain age who is unmarried, our society teaches her to see it as a deep personal failure. And if a man at a certain age isn’t married, we just think he hasn’t come around to making his pick. In India nearly 70% of the marriages are about people just living together and not having r...

 My Arrange Marriage Rejection Story! I am 25 years old. Just like every typical Indian family, my family fixed my marriage due to the pressure built by influential Relatives by constantly bothering about my life in the name of concern because they believe that 25 is the deadline for getting married or else it will be too late to find a suitable partner. And only after marriage I will be tagged as a SETTLED woman! So, I did as they wished. After a month of talking with the guy, one day he figured out from my pictures on social media that my legs are bowed (which is not an abnormal thing and just a natural leg shape found in many humans). He immediately called me and asked me to consult a physiotherapist or undergo surgery to make my legs shape straight. He also stated that if I could not make my legs shape straight within a month then he would not marry me because according to him my legs shape was not desirable and looked weird!  I was devastated and wondered how can a man br...

  Has Controlling and abusive behavior. Gets sexual too fast at the beginning of the relation. This is a huge red flag. Never have deep conversations about life with you. Always talks about the past. Compares you with someone else. Lack of communication. You are not being able to be yourself just to please them or the way they want you to be with them. Makes you feel insecure. Always puts you down and makes you feel low. Lack of effort. Never ignore your gut feeling. If you constantly feel something is wrong with someone, just walk away. Your peace matters!

  I always wonder why all the gods we worship are men?! There are many restrictions on women since ages that our ancestors might have made who were probably Men because they were not comfortable with women doing certain things in a certain way and wanted those things to be the way they desire! These rules or restrictions were made by them to feel superior, strong, and good about themselves.  They always believed that women are created to take care of them, give birth to their children and raise them. They always viewed women as an asset for their pleasure and believed they claim authority over them.  The reality is that such men are weak and insecure who dominate women to feel strong and good about themselves. We live in the 21st century and it's never too late to break the patriarchy. Stop teaching your daughters to adjust and behave instead of teaching your sons how to respect women.  

 EUROPE Europe is a dreamland for many wanderers. From mesmerizing hills to fairy tale castles and romantic beaches, Europe is full of heavenly beauties. It has a diverse ethnicity with fascinating history, unique art, delicious food, and breathtaking sceneries. There is no country in Europe one would not wish to visit.  Not only for beauty, but European countries also stand out for having the best living standards and high-quality education system in the world. Many countries in Europe such as Germany, Austria, Czech Republic, Finland, and France provide free education which attracts students from all over the world. 7 of the 10 most visited countries in the world are European countries.  Be it the French empire, roman empire, British Empire, or the geeks, Europe had a great dominance all over the world in History. It is a land of many great rulers and intellects in the world.  There is much more to know about Europe as it has a lot to offer. It is once in a lifetim...

  Greece Whenever I think of Greece, the picture that pops in mind is of the islands with blue waves and white-washed buildings which seems magical and found nowhere else on this earth! Located in southeastern Europe, Greece is one of the oldest civilizations. Athens, Santorini, and Mykonos are the major tourist destinations. Greece is the best place to spend your summers as it is one of the sunniest places in the world. Greece is also considered the birthplace of democracy. Greece is a collection of many beautiful islands and ancient temples. It is worth getting lost on the Greek island. Switzerland Just like Alice in wonderland, I wish to be Alice in Switzerland! In the land of high-peak Alps, breath-taking views, beautiful lakes, waterfall, and cute wooden cottages, Switzerland stands out of the major tourist destinations in the world. In Switzerland wherever you’ll look, you’ll always have a beautiful view around you. It is home to some of the best skiing and snow-shoeing trail...

  This earth would become a boring place if we all looked same, had same opinions, same dreams, same culture, the same lifestyle, same vision…. OK, that’s enough! This world is full of Diverse perspectives and Different potential. Social media is a great platform to connect with the world and have exposure to various things to enrich your knowledge. Apart from its pros, we cannot deny the fact that social media has a great impact on our minds. Everything you see on social media makes you compare your life with others. It has become so important for people to post everything about themselves to show the world that they are living a happening or an amazing life! Well, no one posts their failures, Right?! This is a great sign of insecurity and attention-seeking. Everyone just wants to compete with each other. Everyone just wants to matter! This affects the self-esteem of many people and creates an inferiority complex in them. Everyone has different choices, you cannot please a...